It’s official, Lyra can stand on her own (with some support from an object). While this is a major milestone for any child, this is truly amazing for Lyra. Lyra has missed so many other milestones. She still doesn’t use her hands and arms well, and she still does not roll from her back to her stomach (she is close). But, if she holds our hands, she can pull herself up and stand!

This is what I am choosing to focus on today. I feel that many parents of special needs children do this. We fully celebrate the milestones our children reach. Lyra goes home from the hospital tomorrow. While we have been able to get her hydrated and greatly reduced her throwing up, we have not found a solution that stops the puking. We also do not know 100% why she is throwing up so much. The doctors have theories, but there really isn’t a test that can provide us with definitive answers. I am excited to go home, and I am worried that we will just end up right back here. It is a constant rollercoaster.

But today she stood on her own two feet. My little girl is defying the expectations the original geneticist gave us. She is a loving, engaged, active, strong little girl. Her tummy just doesn’t work quite right.

P.S. Her onsie says “Loved”, you just can’t see it.